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7 Jedi Moves That Make Women Chase You

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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.


 
If you’re not a stud with women yet, I bet this sounds familiar to you: You look around you and see guys and gals hooking up everywhere.


More often than not, the man seems to be just a normal guy… not particularly Brad Pitt-looking or with Rockefeller-deep pockets.


In fact, he seems to have absolutely NOTHING going for him that would make a great woman fall for him…


… yet YOU can’t seem to get a woman to give you the time of the day.


Not a particularly pleasant feeling, is it?


And I know it leaves you wondering…“What’s going on here? What do these men have that I don’t?”

As they watch their less good-looking friends rock it with women, they are baffled. They feel like they have to understand what’s going on here, or their heads are going to explode.

As they watch their less good-looking friends rock it with women, they are baffled. They feel like they have to understand what’s going on here, or their heads are going to explode.


Believe me, I understand. I’ve been coaching thoughtful, introverted men to become successful with women for more than 20 years.


Almost all of them have friends that are less good-looking then they are, but have way more appeal with the ladies.


As they watch their less good-looking friends rock it with women, they are baffled.


They feel like they have to understand what’s going on here, or their heads are going to explode.


If that’s you, buckle up, because I’m about to give you seven Jedi moves to take control of the dynamics and your interactions with women in a way that MAKES THEM CHASE YOU.


But first, let’s look at the SECRET PSYCHOLOGY of what makes women chase men.
 

What Makes Women Chase Men

What makes women chase men
In general, humans chase that which they can’t have, is scarce or difficult to obtain.


Look at men. Most of us are chasing women for sex because for most guys, sex is scarce and difficult to obtain.


Once we get what we want, we usually stop chasing.


Now the million-dollar question is: what is scarce and difficult to obtain for most women?


I’ll tell you what.


It’s POWER.


Even though we live in the 21st century, the average woman doesn’t have much power in her life.


She doesn’t have much power in her family or at work. Usually the first time women get that feeling of power is when they interact with men.

Even though we live in the 21st century, the average woman doesn’t have much power in her life. Usually the first time women get that feeling of power is when they interact with men.

Even though we live in the 21st century, the average woman doesn’t have much power in her life. Usually the first time women get that feeling of power is when they interact with men.


“What do you mean, Nick?”


Let me explain.


When in the presence of a beautiful woman, most men start accommodating to the extreme.


Listening to their every whim and wish, kissing up to them, flooding them with compliments, taking their dog out, buying them gifts…


… all because their balls have them by the mind. The power of the penis is controlling their brain!


And that’s the problem.


Men give up their power in exchange for sex. But it’s a LOSING STRATEGY.

When men act like lovesick puppies, it puts women in a position where they have all the power. Since power is something that is scarce for most women, of course they want to hang onto that some more.

When men act like lovesick puppies, it puts women in a position where they have all the power. Since power is something that is scarce for most women, of course they want to hang onto that some more.


To truly understand this concept, you have to REALLY look at it from a woman’s perspective.


For the average woman, sex is NOT a scarce thing. It’s not hard to obtain. In fact, it’s easy to obtain.


Therefore, she’s not so obsessed with it as we are.


But power IS scarce for women.


When men act like lovesick puppies, it puts women in a position where they have all the power. Since power is something that is scarce for most women, of course they want to hang onto that some more.


They know that once they give the man sex, there’s a big chance they lose their power.

If you want to turn the tables and MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU, you need to KEEP YOUR POWER.

If you want to turn the tables and MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU, you need to KEEP YOUR POWER.


I know this sounds sick, and the world shouldn’t be like this, and neither your parents nor Disney ever told you this…


… BUT IT’S THE ABSOLUTE UNTOLD TRUTH.


The faster you accept this, the faster you’ll become successful with women and dating.


So, if you want to turn the tables and MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU, you need to KEEP YOUR POWER.


It’s as simple as that.


And if you’re wondering how to do it, today’s your lucky day!


Here are seven power moves to make women chase you.


 

1. Keep Your Cards Close To Your Chest

Don't show your cards
Control the power of the penis. Show her you are socially intelligent.


You have to come from a mindset that you’ve met many women like her before and she won’t be able to wrap you around her finger like she does with all the other guys.


You do this by BITING YOUR TONGUE. Keep compliments to a minimum before you become physically intimate with her.


You can do this in different ways.


The first and most obvious way is not to compliment her at all.


The second way is to only compliment her about non-physical stuff. This could be a character trait she has or something that she put a lot effort into.


Here’s how you would give her a compliment about a character trait.


First, make a list for yourself of the character traits that your dream woman would need to have. That way when a woman shows you this trait, your compliment will be sincere. Believe me, they notice.


Then during your conversation with her, you would have a purpose to find out more about her personality and see if she has the traits you like.


Let’s say you don’t like overly social butterflies, but prefer the more reserved type.

Don’t compliment her on her looks. Instead validate some of her personality traits.

Don’t compliment her on her looks. Instead validate some of her personality traits.


You could ask her questions like:


Are you a social butterfly with a big group of friends, or do you prefer deeper relationships with a smaller group of people?


If she answers with the character trait that you want, you can then validate her for it.


It’s important you do it in a cool, non-kissing-up way. Just tell her you like her answer and explain her the reasons why.


“Nice. We can be friends now (said with cheeky smirk). I think it’s better to have deeper relations with people than to be superficial. You just can’t have meaningful relationships with a ton of people. And I think today it’s even more important than ever before, because these days with social media people don’t know what it means to genuinely connect with each other anymore.”


Another chase trigger compliment is what I call The Double-Edged Compliment.


Basically, you are going to tell her you like some aspect of her, but you’ll also immediately give her a tip on how to improve herself.


For example: I like how the shades you put in your hair complement your skin. You made a good choice there, but have you considered wearing your hair up? I think it would better accentuate your neck.

The Double-Edged Compliment has the added effect that it will make her think about you, trying to figure you out. “What did he mean by this? Does he like me? Does he not like me?”

The Double-Edged Compliment has the added effect that it will make her think about you, trying to figure you out. “What did he mean by this? Does he like me? Does he not like me?”


The reason this compliment works so damn well is because it’s done in a way that keeps the power with you.


You were perceptive enough to see how she matched her hair shades with her skin tone, which is something she put a lot of attention into.


Believe me. Women put a ton of time into thinking about these details. When you compliment her about something that she put a lot of time into, she feels validated. And on top of that, you gave her some advice on how to improve it.


This totally keeps your power by implying that you are used to beauty and think she can do better. In other words, you didn’t idolize her. You kept the power.


This kind of compliment has the added effect that it will make her think about you, trying to figure you out. “What did he mean by this? Does he like me? Does he not like me?”


Chasing behavior starts in the mind. It starts by her mentally investing time in you.


And by the way, don’t be surprised if later she goes to the bathroom and puts her hair up.


 

2. Be Hot And Cold

Use push pull
When you are with her, you behave like a gentleman. You open doors for her, put on her coat, etc.


You connect with her and you mix it up with some teasing to keep the attraction going and keep the conversation from becoming boring. You do all the things you need to do.


But then when you are not with her, you become more distant.


You don’t text her all the time.


When she texts or calls you, you make her wait before you respond.


You end phone conversations and text conversations first.


In general, you are much less available.


To understand why this works, you need to put yourself in her place. Here’s what most guys do to her: THEY TEXT HER ALL THE TIME!


“Good morning, beautiful.” “Good night/sweet dreams, baby.” or “How are you?”


When you are doing the opposite, you immediately stand out from the other men. She’ll start to think about you. “Why isn’t he texting me all the time, like all the other men do?”


In short, it shows her you are in control of the power of the penis. It shows YOU still have the power. That will make her chase you.


Here’s a great little tip. After you go on a first date with a woman, don’t send her a text until the next day at 9 p.m.


Most guys send women the same lame text after their date: “Text me when you’re home, beautiful. 😉”


If you don’t, she’ll be thinking about you in her bed. She’ll probably check her phone in the night when she has to go to the bathroom and first thing in the morning when she wakes up.


And she’ll be thinking of you all day long. “Why didn’t he text me? Maybe he didn’t like our date?”


 

3. Use The Power Of Maybe

Uncertainty makes think about you
Here’s another great thing you can do to keep your power and keep her guessing.


Use the power of maybe.


You can use this in different ways.


If you met her at a party, you could at some point tell her, “Hey, it was nice talking to you, but I’m going back to my friends now. Maybe I’ll see you later.”


But hands down the best time to use the power of maybe is right at the end of your first date.


Just tell her, “It was nice meeting you, Brenda. Maybe we’ll do that again sometime.”


I can guarantee that this will leave her wondering what you meant by it.


And if you combine it with the previous tip (not texting her after the date) it works even better.


 

4. Be Mysterious

Be mysterious
Women are drawn to mystery. Being mysterious means that there are things about you that are not easy to comprehend.


If she doesn’t know everything about you she’ll be thinking about you, trying to figure you out.


The way you do it is by keeping the conversation focused on her.


This is something that should come easily to you, since introverts have a tendency to be good listeners.


Now, of course that doesn’t mean you have to be a totally closed book. That won’t work either.


It just means you keep the conversation focused on her and answer questions by giving her little pieces of information and drip feeding it to her.

Being mysterious just means you keep the conversation focused on her and answer questions by giving her little pieces of information and drip feeding it to her.

Being mysterious just means you keep the conversation focused on her and answer questions by giving her little pieces of information and drip feeding it to her.


In other words, you don’t give everything away immediately. Instead, you let her drag it out of you.


For example, let’s say you are a lawyer.


If at some point during your date she asks what you do for a living, instead of saying you are a lawyer, you could say, “I help people get what they are entitled to”.


You see how this would pique her curiosity to ask more questions.


Let’s say you had a great date with her. You connected with her, and built some attraction and sexual tension. You kept the conversation focused on her. You know a lot about her. She doesn’t know a lot about you.


When she comes home, she’ll realize that she had a great time and that she feels attracted to you, but doesn’t know much about you.



This adds a tremendous effect of mystery. I can virtually guarantee that she will be thinking about you A LOT.


 

5. Imply Abundance.

Imply abundance with women
You should show her that you are a sexual being.


Now, this doesn’t mean you have to brag. But when it comes up during a conversation, you can imply you have other women in your life.


The reason this makes women chase you is because it flips an extremely potent attraction switch in her. It’s called pre-selection.


It means that when a woman knows that a man has other women in his life, she can’t help but feel attracted to that man.



Just like beauty triggers attraction in men, pre-selection triggers attraction in women.


So, by mentioning other women in your life, you trigger those magical, powerful feelings of attraction in her. That feeling will make her chase you.


The way you do it is by being vague, implying things and reluctantly letting her find out about it.


Here’s an example of how to be vague.


Let’s say you are texting with a woman. At some point, you want to break it off first.

The best way to imply abundance is to be vague about what you are doing.

The best way to imply abundance is to be vague about what you are doing.


Most men do this completely wrong by being too specific.


They might tell her they have to go because they have their mother visiting or they have to go play tennis with their best friend.


If you do that, she’ll have nothing to wonder about because you told her exactly what you were doing.


Instead, you should stay vague and send her a text like this:


“Hey, I have to go now, I have a visitor.”


Or “Text you later, I’m going for a drink.”


Can you see how this would leave her wondering who’s visiting you or with whom you are going to have a drink?


She WILL contemplate the possibility of it being another woman. GUARANTEED.


And if she asks who you are having drinks with, just answer with a vague text again.


“A good friend I haven’t seen in a long time”


 

6. Put Her In YOUR Friendzone

Put her in your friend zone
This is more of an advanced technique, and it works wonders.


The idea is simple.


You treat her like a friend. You keep her around, and meet her for coffee, drinks, and other activities. But you are very take-it-or-leave-it.


In the meantime, you show her that you are a sexual person. You imply that you have other women in your life. You talk about dates you went on, just like you would do with a real friend.


You can even check out other women when you’re with her. “Oh, look at those girls over there”.


It won’t take long for her to start thinking about why you’re not making a move on her. All the other guys are doing it. Obviously, you’re not gay, because you go on dates with other women.


So why are you not romantically interested in her? Is there something wrong with her?



If you really want to see a woman chase, put her in the friendzone.


A little trick that really helps with this is calling women “friend”.


When you introduce her to someone, just say, “Hey, meet my friend Jenny”.


Or when you meet her for some activity you can call her a friend, too. “Hey, my friend, how are you doing?” Give her a hug and a pat on the shoulder, like you would do with a real friend.


You can also call her a friend over text.


Just make it a habit of calling her “friend’.


Watch what happens 😊


 

7. Compliment Other Women (Use Sparingly)

Compliment other women
This one is really the bomb. You should use it carefully.


Don’t use it on sweet, innocent girls that don’t have much confidence yet…


… well, you could and it would still work, but you don’t need it. So don’t.


In general, the more beautiful and the more sassy she is, the better this works.


When you are out with her, compliment other women. Not directly to the other woman, but to her.


You do it like this. When you see a woman that’s wearing something that you like, or has her hair in a way that you like, tell her.


“I really like the boots that woman is wearing. They are really classy and sexy at the same time. I bet she put a lot of time and effort in choosing them. Well done.”


Don’t linger on it, but immediately change the conversation: “Anyways, what was I saying, oh yeah, etc”.


 

Conclusion

For most men sex is scarce, but power is not.


For most women power is scarce, but sex isn’t.


When you compliment, confess, act like a nice guy, etc., you give your power away.


Since that’s something that she doesn’t have a lot of, she’ll want to hang on to it by delaying sex.


The best way to make women chase you is therefore to keep your power.


This post showed you seven ninja ways to do so.


But here’s a wake-up call. All these tactics won’t work if you are needy and lack true confidence on the inside.

Why? Beause women can see it in your nonverbal communication.


They can smell neediness, fear and weakness like sharks smell blood in the water.


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